A few years ago my love life was a mess. I kept chasing the wrong people, overthinking every message, and promising myself I'd 'be stronger next time'—but nothing really changed.
After one especially painful breakup, I went all-in: books, therapy, videos, every method I could find.
What finally worked wasn't more information—it was having a simple, daily system that actually changed my behaviour and how I saw myself.
That system became Twenty One.
It helped me stop obsessing over people who weren't choosing me. Feel calm and grounded instead of anxious and desperate. Show up in relationships with boundaries and self-respect.
Now, I want to share the exact process so you can break your own cycle faster, save years of trial and error, and build a love life that feels safe, not chaotic.